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    Dada_Bear liked Zachary's photo
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    Dada_Bear liked Caleb_emt's status
    To think it's ok to jump into a first conversation by calling this new person by a pet name or similar is ridiculous.

    I don't care if it's a "daddy" calling a "little", baby.
    Or the other way around!
    The only way you should be doing that right of the bat is after quick ground rules and what roles you have in a ROLEPLAY.
    That's it! Otherwise you are assuming too much Sir! Or Miss!

    I have been on the recieving end of being called daddy the first time I have talked to many littles/subs.
    I know it's not nearly as demeaning as it is when a lady is being called other pet names by a man. But it still hurts me.
    It shows they just want to be texted by someone with a title.
    They don't care enough to vet me and see if I am worth their time.
    They don't care what the quality of the relationship could be( it isn't gonna last longer than a few days because they don't care)
    They don't care who I am besides the fact i am a brief emotional crutch.
    Some people call these fake daddy's thirsty because they want the sexual aspect. And that's a good word for it.
    My question is what is it when these littles hide behind their little space and desperate desire for a daddy that they end up doing something very similar and end up causing the relationship to be doomed?

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    To think it's ok to jump into a first conversation by calling this new person by a pet name or similar is ridiculous.

    I don't care if it's a "daddy" calling a "little", baby.
    Or the other way around!
    The only way you should be doing that right of the bat is after quick...See more
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    Dada_Bear liked SadisticDaddy's status
    That moment when she’s visibly hurt, lashes out and says things she shouldn’t, unintentionally tries to push you away for absolutely no reason at all; To then taking control as her caregiver, telling her in a very calm, but also very stern and serious voice to relax, to calm down, making her grab her stuffie, her sippy cup, and telling her to close her eyes while you tell her how much she means to you. All the while, the moment being so pure and genuine, she falls asleep like a babe in a mother’s arms within a minute(literally). It’s probably one of the best feelings of being a Daddy Dom. It’s very important to get to know your little in every aspect, to learn and observe and apply love and nurture and care where it was missing. There’s no other feeling like it. (Yes, this happened.)That moment when she’s visibly hurt, lashes out and says things she shouldn’t, unintentionally tries to push you away for absolutely no reason at all; To then taking control as her caregiver, telling her in a very calm, but also very stern and serious voice to relax, to calm down, making her grab he...See more
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    Yep..
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    Dada_Bear liked Dakota_143604's status
    hello everyone!!! Remember it's not the way you look that makes the day, its the way you feel and how you treat others, something as small as a smile can completely turn someones day around. Be the kindness you want others to give you. That said, remember your important to someone out their, so carry on.
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    Dada_Bear liked StrictDaddy4u's status
    I am a little disappointed that because I dont have a picture on my profile that makes me fake. I chose not to post a picture because I dont think that my face showing up with the title StrictDaddy4U would benefit my career if the picture became public.

    I am happy to share who I am after we have chatted for a while. I would suggest more people do the same, especially in a dynamic that is not viewed by those in the vanilla world in a very possitive way.

    On the topic of fake, you claim to have multiple years of experience but your conversation shows that you are confused on what a submissive truly is. You question simple terms and no understanding of power exchange.

    You throw the term little around like its the newest fad and someting you have picked up on to fit in witb your peers. This dynamic isnt rp to allow you to venture away from your vanilla life. To many of us its inherently who we are. I dont flip a switch and turn my Daddy mode off. Its who I am 24/7 its part of who I am as a person. I am a mentor, teacher and guide to those around me daily. Granted I dont go kissing everyone on the forehead but the compassion I have for people, the deisre to help and guide is part of the fabric of who I am. I have been reading, learning and experiencing for more years than you have been alive so please dont call me fake.

    Take the time and educate yourself, understand who you are and what you are. Question, engage and move slowly, this decision should be thought out far more casually than your vanilla flings. I say that because if you do find that bond, loosing it and the emotional emptiness you will afterwards stays with you and its not easilly filled by your next flavor of the week.

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    I am a little disappointed that because I dont have a picture on my profile that makes me fake. I chose not to post a picture because I dont think that my face showing up with the title StrictDaddy4U would benefit my career if the picture became public.

    I am happy to share who I am a...See more
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