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    Gummybears liked DaddyIce's status
    As a person who has been in BDSM society and in DDLG society for many years (4+) and I literary saw and had almost all roles possible in BDSM I must say a few words from the Daddy/Dominant perspective. I am well aware that most categories from BDSM are completely different from DDLG ( Or MDLB etc) but we have to remember that DDLG is still a part of BDSM (you can search online if you don't believe me ). Before anything else I must mention that I have seen on here a lot of posts which state how vulnerable are littles, how cute they are and everything centered on littles. I want to say that I agree with all these posts. I don't deny. However, not too many actually look from the dominant/Daddy's perspective. I used to be switch so I am aware of how littles feel as well since I practically lived like one for a while. Many littles suffer because of many fake "daddies " obsessed with sexual intercourse. Well, I do not know how those daddies even joined the community but, because of them, people forget the hardships being a daddy implies.For a moment, let's forget about those fake daddies because ( I assume ) that everyone who will read this post will be a normal little/daddy with common-sense. If we compare with other categories from BDSM, in DDLG the dominant has the least advantages. If someone chooses to be a Daddy, they accept this fact, which is normal. Let's face a real fact. The punishments littles receive are basically the easiest type of punishments in the entire BDSM community. Those can barely can be called punishments at all ( and believe me, I know what a real punishment means ).The littles have the least responsibility from all roles in BDSM while the Caregiver has the biggest responsibility.As a person who does not care about the sexual part I must mention that dominants can be used for that part as well, since many littles see this only as a kink. Many littles are barely even able to follow those very simple rules they receive. More, than this, Littles receive rejections very hard. In my experience , there were countless times where I was cursed, yelled at, etc because I had a requirement which meant a lot to me but they did not want to accept it but did not want to go find someone else either. Because the Littles need affection, many assume that Dominants don't have feelings. Everyone expects Dominants to swallow what every fake little does ( cheating, lying,creating problems with other people, gossip etc) and move forward without even talking about it cause if a Dominant even " dares " to complain about it, hundreds of littles jump saying " WE SUFFER MORE " etc. Ok, I agree, with that statement, however no one should suffer in my opinion. I understand we have to help each other...but we should accept each other as well. Everyone can be vulnerable.Everyone can be cute or beautiful. It's not something only for littles.Being a Caregiver means to take care of the little. Being a little means to listen to the Caregiver and trust them. The affection and appreciation part is NOT only for littles but it should be something mutual. Anything sexual ( but this is only my personal opinion ) should be only after a certain level of trust is reached and, before anything, it should respect the R.A.C.K and S.S.C. . They can talk about that part at the beginning at the relationship but start doing stuff only after the trust and love is reached. Thank you for your attentionAs a person who has been in BDSM society and in DDLG society for many years (4+) and I literary saw and had almost all roles possible in BDSM I must say a few words from the Daddy/Dominant perspective. I am well aware that most categories from BDSM are completely different from DDLG ( Or MDLB etc) b...See more
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    Bunniboo_22
    Nov 16 '18
    *finger snaps*
    HyperKittenChild
    Nov 17 '18
    I'm not one to express my feelings though word but more so actions. This brought tears to my eyes. I found BDSM before DDLG and my heart is drawn to Bdsm because of how vulnerable both sub and yes even dom need to be. You hit the hammer right on the nail. This also inspired me to be more real on this site. Thank youI'm not one to express my feelings though word but more so actions. This brought tears to my eyes. I found BDSM before DDLG and my heart is drawn to Bdsm because of how vulnerable both sub and yes eve...See more
    DaddyIce
    Dec 29 '18
    I can't agree more, my dear Lady. Sadly, they get what they deserve. Many times it's simply their actions which led to them being hurt.
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    Siberuss
    Jan 6
    Adorable! c:
    1zabella_
    Feb 3
    @Duth_152100 tyyyy <3
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    lets gogogogogogoo~~
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    Ain't no party like a puppy party ^_^
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    Jan 12
    That just made my day!!!
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    Jan 12
    ARE THEY CHIHUAHUASSSS
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    Jan 12
    Noooo they Husky/German Shepherds xD
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