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Lia

Hello there :)

This just seemed like a good place to find friendly, likeminded folks. I love being able to explore these parts of myself, and continue to figure out new things about myself and the things I like in this context. And it'd be nice to chat with people who can empathise, as - as I'm sure is the case for many - the identity/lifestyle/scene is not something I really get much opportunity to talk about in 'real life'.

I'm in a 'vanilla' relationship, which in a sense I keep separate from this part of myself - but he does know about it, and complete honesty is very important.

I have a Daddy, whom I am very loyal to. He's the bestest.

I am also the very proud owner of the sweetest, kindest and most adorable little girl you could wish to meet.

I am ridiculously lucky, and I absolutely know it :)

Please feel very welcome to say hello!

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    Hello! I would like this to be a safe group for little girls and Mommy Dommes only! Have like minded discussions here and even meet your long term par...
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    Lia commented on Teddydaddy's status
    Being told I am not a real daddy and cannot be one since I suffer with depression... oof feels real good.
    May 17
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    Lia
    May 17
    BearHugzz - I sincerely hope I've misunderstood, and you're not stating that being a little equates to "having daddy issues" and being mentally unwell?
    Lia
    May 17
    Well, then here's a novel idea - applying your own logic, why don't you try sending PMs instead of subjecting the rest of us to your uninformed fucking nonsense?
    Lia
    May 17
    Oh, and also (because, fuck it, turns out your sense of entitlement has really pissed me off) - 'opinion' hinges on a level of subjectivity. What you are saying (that being little is effectively mental illness) is a statement as a matter of 'fact', not 'opinion'. So, what you are actually doing is proclaiming a harmful and offensive inaccuracy, and if you choose to do that publicly, then absolutely everyone has the right to call you out on that publicly too.Oh, and also (because, fuck it, turns out your sense of entitlement has really pissed me off) - 'opinion' hinges on a level of subjectivity. What you are saying (that being little is effectively menta...See more
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    Lia commented on JoceyTheBossy's status
    What do you guys normally do when daddy ignores you?
    May 16
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    May 16
    If he is definitely wilfully ignoring you, he doesn't deserve to call himself your or anyone else's daddy. The way he's making you feel is the exact opposite of how a Caregiver should be making you feel. And you should never have to put up with/settle for that, just because he calls himself a daddy. But if this past couple of days of him being very distant is an unusual thing (and he's usually more attentive), then there is the possibility that something's wrong, perhaps he's going through something. That absolutely doesn't mean he should just be ignoring you, but I suppose there's the possibility that he doesn't know what to say, because he knows he can't give you what you need right now as his little. Maybe just message him (as big you, if you can) and tell him it's okay if he needs some space, but that you just need him to let you know that he's okay - and that things between you are still okay. And if he still doesn't reply after after a couple of days, then you probably have your answer. Super good luck.If he is definitely wilfully ignoring you, he doesn't deserve to call himself your or anyone else's daddy. The way he's making you feel is the exact opposite of how a Caregiver should be making you fe...See more
    Lia
    May 16
    It is cruel, I totally agree, and not acceptable. But everyone messes up sometimes, Caregivers aren't immune to that, and sometimes littles need to reach out to them as an adult to ensure they're okay. If he has been a good daddy up until now, I would only say it might be worth a shot to try to reach out to him in this way. He might simply feel that he doesn't know what to say, and sometimes the longer the silence, the harder it is to come back, even if a person really wants to. It absolutely wouldn't let him off the hook, and he would need to explain his actions, and understand how hurtful and upsetting it was. Ultimately I guess my point is, Caregivers are only human too, and as in any relationship, communication can falter when there's hurt, panic, confusion etc. No one should put up with feeling neglected, but sometimes the benefit of the doubt and a bit of extra patience and understanding can mean a relationship can be salvaged and strengthened. But of course, if you're totally sure that he's just being inconsiderate, then say goodbye and don't look back.It is cruel, I totally agree, and not acceptable. But everyone messes up sometimes, Caregivers aren't immune to that, and sometimes littles need to reach out to them as an adult to ensure they're okay...See more
    JoceyTheBossy
    May 16
    I left him, I'm looking for another one now. One that deserves me! That makes me happy
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