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Srhmirh


DDlg Personality Test


Category Score
babytalk 100%
submissive 100%
masochist 100%
age-regressor 100%
baby 100%
brat 100%
stuffie-addict 96%
soft-caregiver 83%
obedient 83%
sexual littlespace 60%
pet 50%
diaper-lover 50%
hard-caregiver 17%
dominant 4%
middle 0%
sadist 0%

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    Srhmirh liked DominantKing's photo
    Yes
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    Srhmirh liked Amanda_217076's status
    Why is everyone being so mean and ghosting everyone I am sorry I don't want and old man that's around my dad's age it's just makes me uncomfortable and and when I get slightly attached to someone my age they block me like wtf!?
    Aug 5
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    Srhmirh liked Stitch_626's status
    Why do older doms feel the need to shame me for wanting a younger dom?? This is the 5th one so far who has gotten mad and called me a fake little because of this.
    I understand that I am a little looking for a daddy, but that doesn't mean I want to date my dad. So NO I don't want someone my REAL father's age or older. I'm sorry if that is really such a terrible thing, me not wanting someone double my age or older, but I don't.
    Why do older doms feel the need to shame me for wanting a younger dom?? This is the 5th one so far who has gotten mad and called me a fake little because of this.
    I understand that I am a little looking for a daddy, but that doesn't mean I want to date my dad. So NO I don't want someone my RE...See more
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    Srhmirh liked DominantKing's photo
    True
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    Srhmirh liked Pete's status
    What is a Mentor

    I have recently been asked questions about mentorship. One of the things I have always loved about being in the lifestyle for a few years, is the experience of others and their willingness to share their knowledge when asked. I will never claim to know what it is like to be Dominant but I do know who I am as a Dominant. I’m still learning each and every day.

    First understand what a mentor does and does not do. A mentor is someone who is trusted, a guide, a "big brother" or “big sister” type, someone who can help you see the pros and cons of the paths before you. A mentor is not a play partner, a sexual partner, your dominant, your caregiver, trainer or your teacher. A mentor does not own you or punish you. If you want play, then find someone to play with. If you want sex, then find a sexual partner. If you want a BDSM relationship, find a dominant (or submissive, as the case may be). If you want to learn a skill, find a teacher. If you want to be coached in lifestyle choices, assessment of character, examination of situations, then find a mentor.
    A good mentor helps you look at your own desires, helps you figure out a way to achieve them on your own, and then helps you assess your progress as you go. They don't do any of these things for you. All they can do is help you learn how to learn, how to problem solve, plan, and implement things in your own best interests. Along the way, their experience and wisdom may help you avoid some common pitfalls and newbie mistakes. But all the choices will be yours to make. The results of those choices will be yours to own.

    Set goals for yourself. Perhaps you need to make better relationship choices, be more in tune to the agendas of other people, or put more logic and less emotion into your choices. You may have any number of bad habits you're trying to rise above. A mentor's outside perspective and experience will help you see options more clearly. They may even see patterns of behavior that have been getting in the way of your success. Along the way, your mentor's experience and wisdom may help you avoid some common pitfalls and newbie mistakes. But all the choices will still be yours to make. The results of those choices will be yours to own, too, whether they are good or bad results. A mentor can't fix what is broken in you. They may suggest, but they can't stop you from making bad choices. Only you can do that. When you are new, making good plans on your own is guesswork. You probably don't have enough experience to fully understand what the consequences of making uninformed choices will be. A mentor can help you look at things with a clear perspective and point out when your plan is not likely to get you to your goals, or worse, if your plan has you heading you for trouble.
    What is a Mentor

    I have recently been asked questions about mentorship. One of the things I have always loved about being in the lifestyle for a few years, is the experience of others and their willingness to share their knowledge when asked. I will never claim to know what it is like...See more
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    Srhmirh liked Little_princess420's status
    Like if you love dogs
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    🥰
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  • Srhmirh
    Srhmirh liked punkprincess's status
    Good morning everyone! Just a reminder that DDLG is NOT about punishments and control. If you're looking STRICTLY for that without any of the emotional intimacy, please join a different community. You are not welcome here.
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