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  • mrew
    mrew and bellabells are now friends
  • neverslowdown
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  • bellabells
    bellabells commented on their photo
    Just getting in the Christmas spirit with Fluffy x
    Dec 6
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    Lil_dragonfly
    Dec 5
    Aww you look to koot!!!
    bellabells
    Dec 6
    Thank you x
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  • Johnnyboy
    Johnnyboy and bellabells are now friends
    Dec 6
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  • dreamboatitanic
    dreamboatitanic and bellabells are now friends
    Dec 6
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  • bellabells
    bellabells commented on Little_Marvel_Boy's status
    I just learned I have to get one of my wisdom teeth pulled because it has a kinda big hole in it.. Can't get it extracted till Monday. Last time they pulled a tooth I was in so much pain and blood everywhere I'm so scared right now.. Wish I could have a coma till Monday until the end of the extraction.. this week is going to be literal hell.. I have to basically deal with this axenity till tuesday.. I'm wondering if God hates me.. like I tried to do good in my life by finding a job and then this happens😔..I just learned I have to get one of my wisdom teeth pulled because it has a kinda big hole in it.. Can't get it extracted till Monday. Last time they pulled a tooth I was in so much pain and blood everywhere I'm so scared right now.. Wish I could have a coma till Monday until the end of the extracti...See more
    Dec 4
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    Cute_Baby_Girl
    Dec 4
    Stop being mean to him :( it's scary sometimes! Anxiety does a lot to a person especially if they already had a bad experience..
    PrinzeCharming
    Dec 4
    Let's define mean, Cute_Baby_Girl. According to Dictionary.com, "offensive, selfish, or unaccommodating; nasty; malicious." How were we offensive? Selfish? Nasty? We've been very accommodating to Kyle for the past two months. He chooses not to take any accommodations.Let's define mean, Cute_Baby_Girl. According to Dictionary.com, "offensive, selfish, or unaccommodating; nasty; malicious." How were we offensive? Selfish? Nasty? We've been very accommodati...See more
    Lil_dragonfly
    Dec 4
    @cute_baby_girl, we’re not being mean, he’s been posting about this for 2 days straight, even though others have tried to help, support or offer advice, he’s still posting about it and ignoring everything everyone has been saying. Even you have to admit it’s a bit over board, yeah dentist appointments suck, we’ve all been there, but are they really that bad to say that god hates him and to have depression and anxiety over it and even wishing to be in a coma over a tooth? If something so small affects him so much it’s obvious there’s a problem there he needs to deal with... not that he will of course@cute_baby_girl, we’re not being mean, he’s been posting about this for 2 days straight, even though others have tried to help, support or offer advice, he’s still posting about it and ignoring everyt...See more
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  • bellabells
    bellabells commented on Little_Marvel_Boy's status
    Has anyone else had a hole or cavity in there molar that is medium sized and if so what do they do? I'm so scared and this is effecting my self esteem.. it doesn't hurt or anything but I wonder if they can fix it.. this was all caused by some bacon I had with dinner because the person who cooked it burnt it 😔..
    Dec 4
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    LittleBakaOnna
    Dec 4
    Goodluck! When is your appointment??
    Lil_dragonfly
    Dec 4
    You shouldn’t really brush 3 times a day ether hun, brushing to much removes the protective layer of the teeth making it easier to damage them
    Little_Marvel_Boy
    Dec 4
    I've tried and the dentist won't do anything because I only have State insurance:/
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  • variation30
    variation30 and bellabells are now friends
    Dec 4
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  • bellabells
    bellabells commented on PrinzeCharming's status
    So, let me get this straight. The woman genuinely interested in being your mommy recently became distant because she lost someone in her family. Your insecurities got the best of you because she did the natural thing to step away and become distant with those around her to grieve. You assume the worst case scenario because you're familiar with this feeling already, and have never imagined life's unexpected events for someone to step away. You take this as a personal attack. When she finally gets back to you, because she respects you and values communication like you do, you still focus on the reason why she's in your life. Being a mommy in a mdlb relationship. You have no empathy towards her recent loss. Did you say you were sorry for her loss? Did you say anything about condolences for the friends and families involved? If anyone close to me hasn't talked to me in forever, I would reach out even when my messages aren't being seen. I would reach out the minute they come back. I'd ask questions. I'd give them comfort and reassurance. I'd let them know that I missed them. I'd let them know that I am there for them through this tough time. I wouldn't ever question our own relationship. If someone in their family died, why should that ever make you question your own relationship? The problem is how you're reactive instead of proactive. Being proactive focuses on eliminating problems before they happen, while reactive is responding or reacting to problems after they happen. Here's an example. You know it's a hot sunny day. There's an ice cream cone with multiple scoops of your favorite ice cream. Instead of reacting to the way it melts in your hand and cleaning up the mess, eat the damn thing before it does! That's the difference. You didn't know what was happening to be proactive, but you could still start from within. Focus on her. Why would she disappear? Did you wonder if she was okay? Everything you wrote on your statuses was about you. You focused on why you're sad. You focused on being undesirable. Nothing questioning if your mommy was alright. Nothing about worrying how she felt being away from you. You made your new mommy seem like a worthless piece of shit for leaving you over her dead uncle. Now, how does that sound? Selfish? You assumed she stopped loving you - which by the way - seemed a bit too soon for love anyway. You assumed she broke up with you. You literally took everything personally. Stop it. When you worried after 5 days, you only worried about not having a mommy in your life. Not about her not being in your life. You need to start reevaluating your priorities. I am disgusted by the way you handled someone's loss. No respect for her family. Shame on you. So, let me get this straight. The woman genuinely interested in being your mommy recently became distant because she lost someone in her family. Your insecurities got the best of you because she did the natural thing to step away and become distant with those around her to grieve. You assume the wor...See more
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    Little_Marvel_Boy
    Dec 1
    I told her I was sorry for her loss and I woke up to being told I'm heartless and my grandma died today 8 years ago so being broken up with is the last thing I wanted
    bellabells
    Dec 1
    You are heartless, you just made the situation about you. AGAIN. Your grandma died, well sorry for you. But that was 8 fucking years ago, her uncle died a few days ago, and you have no sympathy. You're revolving it around you by bringing up the death of your grandmother to make her look heartless and cruel. When the selfish cruel bastard is you.You are heartless, you just made the situation about you. AGAIN. Your grandma died, well sorry for you. But that was 8 fucking years ago, her uncle died a few days ago, and you have no sympathy. You'r...See more
    Lil_dragonfly
    Dec 1
    @prinzeCharming, it’s not that he’s heartless, we know people with autism have a hard time understanding others emotions and stuff, but he can’t keep using that as an excuse when all he has to do is try, there are things he can do to help improve himself and better understand things but he doesn’t bother, he just uses the autism care and expects that to get him out of every situation, well things don’t work that way unfortunately. My friend had autism and he used that as an excuse to put extra effort into understanding the world and seeing what he needed to improve, not hiding behind it as an excuse@prinzeCharming, it’s not that he’s heartless, we know people with autism have a hard time understanding others emotions and stuff, but he can’t keep using that as an excuse when all he has to do is t...See more
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  • bellabells
    Some of ya'll need some crash courses in angling when taking pictures.
    Dec 1
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