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dashed135

Howdy, I love to make and listen to music, draw, and write. My little age is around 3.

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    (24/M/Dallas) little boy looking for a long distance caregiver
    I'm looking caregiver for me, long distance as I'm not ready for close. Mommy or Daddy. I am 24 years old and enjoy making and listening to music, dra...
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    People really need to stop treating others as just a ‘little’ or a just a ‘caregiver’, yes we are apart of this community, but we are still people outside this lifestyle and should be recognised as individuals, not just a ‘little’ or a ‘caregiver’. People always feel the need to just jump straight into ddlg related things when meeting someone new, they completely disregard the fact that the person there talking to is a person, with a different life and different interests outside of ddlg, and immediately jump head first into ddlg related questions. You’d never act this way when meeting someone new on the steet, so why do people feel the need to do it here as well? People completely disregard the common standard for making new friendships, saying hello, introducing yourself, learning about each other, finding common interests, and instead immediately begin treating the person there talking to as just another potential little/caregiver to be put through a test to see if they need to be weeded out before moving onto the next one, this isn’t how it should be... just because we are apart of this community doesn’t mean it is the soul factor that defines our person and our entire existence revolves around the lifestyl, so please start treating others as actual people, with respect and dignity, instead of just another potential partner People really need to stop treating others as just a ‘little’ or a just a ‘caregiver’, yes we are apart of this community, but we are still people outside this lifestyle and should be recognised as individuals, not just a ‘little’ or a ‘caregiver’. People always feel the need to just jump straight i...See more
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    Dec 17 '18
    @littlegoat I’m not exactly sure what this comment has to do with my post, but Just try to be yourself, don’t put on a mask to please other people and ask them what they would like to talk about, keep up good communication and show who you are, you don’t need to play the chase game and doing so isn’t fun for you or the person your doing to towards, so just stay genuine@littlegoat I’m not exactly sure what this comment has to do with my post, but Just try to be yourself, don’t put on a mask to please other people and ask them what they would like to talk about, keep...See more
    LittleGoat
    Dec 17 '18
    @Lil_dragonfly I'm probably not directly commenting on what you said, but you do speak wise things, and it inspires my own thoughts. I'm probably writing more for the sake of being read by someone who reads your piece first, and then mine, and can put the two together in a way that helps them better understand how to conduct themselves.

    To better clarify: The same person who treats others as just a "little" or just a "caregiver," might also be putting on masks as the opposite. The one who messages a little as only a little, and not a person, will likely put on a mask as a caregiver, instead of as the person whom they truly are, which ends up making it worse for both, and not out of any sort of malicious intent, but instead, just because it is confusing to deal with other people.
    @Lil_dragonfly I'm probably not directly commenting on what you said, but you do speak wise things, and it inspires my own thoughts. I'm probably writing more for the sake of being read by someone who...See more
    Lil_dragonfly
    Dec 17 '18
    @littlegoat Oh, I understand, I never really thought of it that way, that’s very insightful. thank you for clarifying xx
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